am i t only one around here / that expects a fucking "thank you" after i hold the door open for you?
A am i the only one around here meme.
Am I the Only One Around Here is John Goodman as Walter Sobchak in The Big Lebowski (1998), yelling in frustration. The full line - "Am I the only one around here who gives a shit about the rules?" - became a template for feeling like the last sane person in the room. It's the meme for frustration with everyone else.